You cannot fabricate a religious experience. Either you feel it or you don't. You won't tell a woman or man that you love her or him if you don't feel it. So why should you feel compelled to go with the flow, and say things that you don't mean or feel in the church? Or worse, go along with the hysterics?
I hate it when preachers scream and shout "God is in the House" and you don't feel the presence of God just the preacher's ego.